Looking back it’s hard to believe how much my friends have shaped my life. It’s hard to think of what my life would be like without them.For these people, I would take a bullet for.
Friendship is the relationship valued by all , agreed ?? Without friends life is empty , agreed ??? I know, i know , u all must hav !!! 🙂
This one post is for my bestiee … in 2 years or even less she became my life .. my psychologist …. words aren’t enough to describe her !!! As usual, we were chatting in fb .. she sent ” just sent a hi to nive, hope i dont get insulted . lol .. ” Nive was her old skul friend and yes they were best friends . I had heard many stories of their friendship. And before i did reply for her previous msg came another “she dint reply .. seen . but dint reply ! how cud she do dis 😥 ” … she was hurt .. hurt that her best friend has changed her priorities .. hurt that she avoided her .. hurt that she doesn’t even have time to reply a basic “hi”…Yes , she was damn hurt. I could sense that. Tears rolled down her eyes. She couldn’t bear the fact that her best friend no more needs her. It is rightly said that the heart takes more time to accept things that the brain already knows.
This was what i replied… “dude, chill and calm down first.Accept the reality that she no more has time for you and move on .I understand that she was your best friend .. but she WAS not IS anymore. At times like these only you come to know who your real friends are “. When she asked me in anger whether she should block her, i told her not to block but just delete that msg from her own inbox and forget that she did ever send dat msg to her. That i did so that she dint have to again and again see that “seen” in her inbox. “Listen yaar, its good dat you dint see any ego and texted her first. So it is not your fault to have sent that msg. First thing you should do is now to forget. Dont keep thinking about the past. Live in the present (with me ,an awesum frnd :P) and wait for her to come back to you. Believe in your friendship dont break it. I assure you some day she will realise what you and your friendship meant to her and that day she will open her inbox to leave a msg for you and when she will do that she will see that you had sum days, months or years back , had sent a msg and she hadnt replied . She will feel guilty for sure and that day you can proudly boast that your friendship was true and it won”
So readers, i know surely that you would have understood the pain of being avoided by your very bff !!!.. But dont get disheartened .. if she/he would have really been your friend, they will come back. Believe your friendship… If they weren’t true then you should be thankful that atleast they walked out of your life before you got a chance to kick them out of your life..
To end with i will quote a quote here … “Be slow to fall into friendship, but when you are in, continue firm and constant.”